Sermon -Leadership in the Church pt 6 - The Ministry of Deacons

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As we move on to examine the role of deacons, we look at the commonly used words for "servant" or "service" in the New Testament to ask why one in particular (diakonos) was used as a title for this office within the church. Exploring these words gives us a greater understanding of how we should all be serving God and one another, as well as highlighting the particular role of deacons.

Leadership in the Church pt 6

The Ministry of Deacons

29/11/09

Recap

As we have looked at the topic of leadership in the Church we have spent the last 4 weeks exploring the role of Elders and the qualifications that are necessary for those who would serve God and His people in that noble task.  If we want our church to be blessed by God we need to make sure that we have the right people in leadership and that we are clear on what that role requires of them and also what it requires of the congregation. 

Today we will move on to explore the ministry of Deacons and the sort of people they are to be.

If you were here for our first session you will remember the basic difference between Elders and Deacons.  Elders are responsible for the general oversight of the church – they…

·         guard their own lives and the lives of the flock

·         care for the needs of the flock

·         lead the flock

Deacons, on the other hand are given a specific responsibility in serving the church and are delegated the authority necessary to carry out that responsibility.  We are going to clarify this a little more this morning as we go through our study of God’s Word together.

Opening Prayer

Why “Deacon”?

Remember the word “Deacon” simply means “servant”.  However there are a number of words in the Greek language that all convey the idea of a servant, and each has a unique slant which is worth exploring.

We’re going to spend a bit of time getting familiar with some of these words today, not just so that we can understand the role of Deacons better, but so that we can all have a mature understanding of what the Bible means when it talks about each of us as servants.  I believe that we’ll be quite challenged as we wrestle with the issue of servanthood today in this broader context.

1.  doulos /doo·los/]

Means a bonded servant or slave.  This person belongs to the one they serve.  This is true for all Christians.  It emphasises the loyalty we have to our master.  The Bible warns us that we can be slaves to sin (eg: John 8:34), but rather we are to be slaves of God which leads to a life of righteousness (Rom. 6:22) and brings with it the gift of eternal life (Rom. 6:22).

It is significant that one of the key passages which describes the free gift of salvation through Jesus also highlights the fact that it involves becoming a slave of God instead of a slave to sin.  So often people try to use God as a vending machine to try and get what they want, as though He were their servant, not the other way around!  We want to go to a better place when we die.  We want comfort, protection, meaning and so on, and we think that we have a right to demand these things from God.  That is not reality!

The reality is that God is incredibly gracious and generous, and desires to bless us because He loves us.  But He is God and we are not!  He created us and He redeemed us.  We belong to Him and He may do as He wishes with us.

Thanks be to God that His will is always “good, pleasing and perfect” (Rom 12:2), even if it doesn’t always make sense to us in the short term.

To be a slave of God requires two things in particular: submission and trust.  Submission says that I will come under His rule and do whatever He says, regardless of what I want or what I think is best.  Trust says that as I do this I know that He will always prove that His wisdom is true wisdom and His love always prevails. 

Are you living as a slave of God right now?

Here’s something even scarier!

Jesus said that greatness in God’s Kingdom is to make yourself a “slave to all” (Mk 10:44)!  In 1 Corinthians 9:19 the Apostle Paul is describing the fact that he has paid his own way in ministry and is not obligated to anyone, but then he says that he chooses to consider himself a slave to everyone!  He puts his own needs, desires and freedoms as a lesser priority than the needs, desires and freedoms of others.  He is completely committed to others above himself.  He does this because he wants to be a minister of the gospel, and he does not want anything to get in the way of that. 

Is that your attitude?  Are you committed to others above yourself?  Do you long to get together with other Christians so that you might encourage them and build them up in their faith?  Do you long to get together with unbelievers so that you might shine the light of Christ?  Or are there other reasons that you want to be with people, or other reasons that keep you away from people?

Are you a slave of God and of others?

This is what God’s Word commands for us.

2. huperetes /hoop·ay·ret·ace/

This literally means an “under-rower”, such as in a galley ship.  The rowers were in subordination to the officer who would beat out the time on his drum and would also lead in singing a tune to keep time to.  It was essential for the smooth sailing of the ship that all the rowers rowed to the same rhythm.  They must follow orders completely and pay attention to the will of their superior.  This word is used when the writer wants to emphasise the subordinate position of the servant.

The Apostle Paul applies this word to himself even as he is defending his Apostolic authority in 1 Corinthians 4:1 when he says: “So then, men ought to regard us as servants of Christ and as those entrusted with the secret things of God”^[1]

So even though he has been entrusted with great responsibility and authority, Paul refers to himself as just another one of the rowers who are listening to the same leader – Jesus Christ.  This is the attitude of humble, servant leadership that we have talked about as an essential characteristic of Elders in previous studies. 

To see ourselves in the same way is to view ourselves with humility.  It is to consider ourselves to be part of the crew, not the one steering the ship!  It is to seek the wisdom of God and not our own, and to work hard at putting it into practice in partnership with others.

3. oiketes /oy·ket·ace/

Refers to a household slave.  They live and serve in their Master’s house.  Again, this is true for all Christians – we are part of God’s household!  Paul uses this word in Romans 14 when he says: “Who are you to judge someone else’s servant? To his own master he stands or falls.”

Paul is giving a reminder here to people that there is one Master over the house of God – Jesus Christ, and that we are each responsible to Him for our service within that household.  Instead of fighting and criticising others we should be mindful of our own service.

It follows very naturally from the first two ideas: we belong to Christ and we listen to His voice, however it emphasises our sense of belonging – we are part of His household, His family.  That’s a very privileged position to be in.

In Luke 16 we read Jesus using this word when He says that “No servant can serve two masters. Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and Money.” (Lk 16:13). 

Imagine two competing households – a bit like the Montague’s and Capulet’s in “Romeo and Juliet”.  The servants in each house despise the other house.  Loyalty for one produces enmity toward the other.  In this case, Jesus says that’s how it is with God and money.  Of course, he’s talking about greed or a love of money here.  A love of money is directly opposed to the love of God.  You cannot serve both.

In your attitude towards sin – whether it’s greed or any other sin – is it clear whose house you belong to?  Do you oppose what your Master opposes, and do you love what He loves? 

4. latreuo /lat·ryoo·o/

This word describes service as an act of worship.  Worship and service go together, as Jesus quoted to Satan during His temptation in the wilderness.  In Matthew 4:10 Jesus says: “Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only”

The word “latreuo” is used to describe the acts of service that come from a heart which worships God.  In Romans 9 Paul uses the same word to describe the worship offered by Jews at the temple as service to God.  Later in chapter 9 the same word is again used to describe our reasonable act of service, which is to offer our bodies to God as living sacrifices.

This word emphasises the fact that we will always serve what it is that we worship.  That’s why we cannot claim to worship God if we continue to live selfishly and sinfully.  Our lifestyle shows that our claim to worship God is in fact false, because we are serving our own sinful desires rather than doing the will of God.  It doesn’t matter how loudly we sing, dance, speak or anything else on Sunday if we’re not serving God every day.

And finally we come to…

5. diakonos /dee·ak·on·os/

God in His perfect wisdom did not choose any of the previous words to describe this particular office in the Church.  He chose another commonly used word, which applies to all Christians just as each of the previous ones do.  He chose that word to help Christians in New Testament times as well as today to grasp what this office in the Church is for.

The word “diakonos” is usually translated as “servant” or “deacon”.  It’s a very interesting word in that it’s had two common uses in New Testament times.

The first was to describe someone who has been given a task to perform.  This is a person who serves a master by carrying out the task entrusted to them – carrying a message or performing some task on behalf of their master or employer.

The second common use was to describe a waiter – someone who ministered to the needs of others.  Martha did this for Jesus and His companions.

Both of these things are to be true of believers.  We represent Christ in carrying His message and doing good deeds in His name.  We are also to minister to the needs of others just as though it were Christ we were serving, as Matthew 25 among many other passages points out very clearly.

Both of these meanings also describe what is involved in the office of deacon.

Deacons are given specific tasks to perform by the Church.  In Acts chapter 6 we read of how 7 men were given authority both by the church as a whole and by the Apostles to carry out the task of distributing food to the needy.  They represented the Church as a whole.  They were given authority to carry out the task by the Apostles, who laid hands on them and commissioned them for service.  They ministered to the widows among the congregation who were in need of food.  They were commissioned for a specific task.

We need to be careful about falling for a common misunderstanding when it comes to the role of deacons.  It is commonly said that Elders look after “spiritual” ministry while Deacons look after “practical” ministries.  Elders pray, teach, encourage and discipline while Deacons pay bills, repair buildings, set budgets and so on.

While there is an element of truth in that, there is also a dangerous error.  All Christian ministry is spiritual ministry.  That’s why the qualifications for Deacons are almost identical to those for Elders.  Also, the oversight of Elders applies to the whole life of the church, including practical matters of administration.  They entrust particular responsibilities to particular people, but their responsibility for oversight is not diminished.  I have seen situations where a Deacons board has allocated finances and made decisions about resources that completely disagreed with the priorities that the Elders had determined.  In truth, there were two leadership groups and they didn’t always go in the same direction!

In our church we have a group of deacons who are commissioned to carry out a number of responsibilities.  They meet together with the Elders once a month, and carry out their individual duties in between those meetings.

We have an action plan that lists the specific tasks that have been taken on by each person and we review that when we get together.  Depending on what needs doing, an Elder may be the best person to take on the job, but care must be taken that Elders are not distracted from their general role of caring for the flock by getting caught up in tasks that can be entrusted to others.

As I mentioned earlier in our series, there are recognised ministry tasks which the church has entrusted to people in our congregation without giving them the title of “Deacon”.  We have people who have been entrusted with choosing songs for us to sing, running Kids Club or Youth Group, overseeing our Ladies Ministry or Missions support, teaching Scripture and so on.  Each of these responsibilities fits with the New Testament use of the word “diakonos”.  Whether we call them deacons or not, what matters is that we treat them as such.

We need to make sure that we are equally careful to make sure that only qualified people are appointed to these roles, and that there is appropriate recognition of people who are working hard in and for our church (See Romans 16:1-16 to see how Paul recognised such people).  We also need to make sure they are receiving proper oversight and support from the Elders, just like the Deacons receive.

It is very easy for the church to become a kingdom of kingdoms, with different people who are in charge of their own areas and don’t like any interference from anyone else.  However the responsibility of Elders is to make sure that every part of the church is operating in accordance with God’s Word and that every member is being helped to grow in the maturity of their faith and service.  Sometimes people don’t want that, they want to be left alone to do things their own way!

It is dangerous when Elders meddle in every part of the church just because they want everything to happen the way they like it - where Elders are on a power trip!  However Elders who exhibit the sort of characteristics that we have discussed over recent weeks will not fall into that trap.

A deacon (both by title and by function) – is someone who is entrusted with a task and therefore is accountable in how they carry it out.  A deacon is someone who serves the needs of others.

Reflection Questions:

1. Am I living up to what these words describe?  What things is God challenging me about from His Word?

2. Does my understanding of the role of deacons fit with what the Bible teaches?

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^[1]All Scriptures from The Holy Bible : New International Version. 1996, c1984. Grand Rapids: Zondervan.

Article - Getting Ready for Christmas

Getting Ready for Christmas

It’s almost December, which means many people will be starting to open little windows on their Advent Calendars to count down toward Christmas.  Two weekends ago we were at Whitford City shopping centre where thousands upon thousands of people were trying to get ready – buying presents, decorations and stocking up on food and drink before the last-minute rush.  Phone lines run hot as people arrange the schedule of who-visits-who and when it happens so as not to conflict with the in-laws and the work do’s etc.

The first Christmas was also during a busy time, and the arrival of the Saviour might have gone completely unnoticed had God not sent His angels to stir up some shepherds who sought Him out and then went to spread the word.  Some of us run sheep on our farms, but I wonder if we will be shepherds like these ones this Christmas?  Will we listen afresh to the good news and seek out Jesus during this busy season?  Will we make sure others hear that good news through us?

So don’t focus on getting ready for a busy – or a relaxed – Christmas.  Focus on celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ and spreading the word!

Leadership in the Church pt 5

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This message wraps up the list of qualifications for Elders by looking at what it means for Elders to be "not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money, must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him with proper respect and must not be a recent convert." We play particular attention to the issues of the use or abuse of alcohol and the question of whether an Elder should be evaluated by the faith of his children in addition to their conduct and attitude.

Leadership in the Church pt 5

The Qualifications of Elders 3

22/11/09

Recap

So far in our studies we have determined the first 6 qualifications necessary of Elders:

1.      An Elder must be a man

2.      An Elder must be above reproach

3.      An Elder must be faithful to his wife if he is married

4.      An Elder must be temperate, self-controlled, respectable

5.      An Elder must be hospitable

6.      An Elder must be able to teach

It’s taken us two weeks to do these first 6, which means we’re halfway there!  We’re going to attempt to finish the last 6 all in one session, so let’s get started!

1 Timothy 3:1-7

Here is a trustworthy saying: If anyone sets his heart on being an overseer,^ he desires a noble task. ^2 Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,

…now for the next group…

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^3 not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. ^4 He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him with proper respect. ^5 (If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God’s church?) ^6 He must not be a recent convert, or he may become conceited and fall under the same judgment as the devil. ^7 He must also have a good reputation with outsiders, so that he will not fall into disgrace and into the devil’s trap. ^[1]

Adding Detail to the Big Picture

If you remember our discussion on the first qualifications, you will remember that the first two qualifications really cover everything – An Elder must be a man (this is God’s sovereign choice and not a matter of gender superiority) who is above reproach (not perfect but someone who sets a good example even in how they deal with their sins).

If you look at the rest of the qualifications, they all describe specific ways in which the Elder applies himself to be a man who is above reproach –whether that’s as a husband, father, community member or whatever.

You will also notice as we go through today that our fourth qualification: being temperate, self-controlled and respectable is also described in more detail by these later qualifications.

Let’s deal with them one by one:

7.      An Elder must be not given to drunkenness

This is one example of what it means to be temperate – to be clear-minded and not under the control of any substances, desires or influences other than the Holy Spirit of God.

A person who is given to drunkenness cannot see clearly to act wisely - to discern God’s will and follow His ways.  They will say and do things that will damage themselves and others and dishonour God.

I love this community very much and have great respect for it’s strengths, but I think we all realise that perhaps it’s greatest weakness is the attitude that most of it’s members have toward alcohol abuse.  I am astounded again and again at the attitude of toleration and even admiration for alcohol-fuelled stupidity that I see reflected in comments, attitudes and behaviours of even very respectable, intelligent and prominent community members.

This week Police Commissioners from across Australia and New Zealand have been meeting in Perth, and one of the outcomes of that has been a decision to have an intensive blitz in December against alcohol-fuelled violence. 

W.A. Commissioner Karl O'Callaghan said:
"We as police commissioners are sick and tired of alcohol-fuelled violence, we want to do something about it, we want to make a national statement about it”  He went on to say “This is not of course the answer, in the longer term of course we have to work a bit further upstream and stop this alcohol binge drinking related violence we're seeing."[2]

In a report for Australian Government last year, researchers calculated alcohol abuse in Australia to cost our economy in excess of 10 billion dollars.  This includes healthcare costs of approximately $2b, road accident costs of over $2b and criminal activity costs of over $1.4b.[3]

The economic cost is one thing, but the real issue is the effect on people’s lives.  You and I know people whose lives have been cut short or irreparably damaged because of alcohol abuse.  It’s an immeasurable tragedy.

Churches and the community in general need people that they look up to who demonstrate a proper attitude toward alcohol.  We certainly cannot afford leaders who are part of this massive problem!  We cannot afford leaders who have their judgement and behaviour impaired and reputation damaged by being given to drunkenness.

Over the years that I have been in Narembeen I’ve shared a beer or a glass of wine with people in a number of different situations.  My own personal rule, as well as obviously avoiding going anywhere near drunkenness, has been to not drink any alcohol in an environment where some people might be taking it too far.  I want to make sure no-one mistakenly puts me in the same basket as people who are getting drunk, and I also want to make a very clear distinction in my behaviour.  I have also been very public in my comments about drunkenness, sometimes causing offense by my disapproval.

Some people here are very similar to myself, others choose not to consume alcohol at all.  Some people who have been a part of this church have regularly consumed alcohol privately but not publicly.  Some have been happy to consume alcohol publicly but not in church-run events or events hosted on church property.

To his or her own master each person stands or falls (Romans 14:4), but when it comes to who we should choose as an Elder, the Biblical qualification is clear: he must not be given to drunkenness.  Be careful about applying your own convictions to anyone else.  I understand that some people would like to apply their own common sense or personal preferences in addition to what the Bible says, but that is actually incredibly dangerous for a number of reasons.

If you have a group of leaders – as we do at the moment – who are committed to the Bible but who differ in some areas of practice such as this one, then you will have a church that follows the Bible as it’s rule and encourages freedom and the guidance of the Holy Spirit within the boundaries of clear biblical teaching.  You will have a church that lives up to our motto in Churches of Christ: “In essentials, unity.  In non-essentials, liberty.  In all things, love.” (This saying is from Augustine in the 4^th century, we just claimed it as a motto!).

However if you choose leaders based on agreement on non-essential things, your church will end up being defined by those things.  You might think that is a good thing, but it actually kills freedom, enforces conformity instead of acceptance and produces an attitude of legalism which then in turn produces exasperation and rebellion.  If you don’t believe me just talk to each other for a while and you will discover that this has in fact been your experience on occasion!

8.      An Elder must not be violent but gentle, not quarrelsome

Who normally rises to positions of power and prominence?  Usually it is the people who pursue it the hardest – people who know what they want and don’t let anyone or anything get in their way.  Not so with leadership in the Church.  Leadership is about service and sacrifice motivated by love for God and others, not selfish ambition.  As James writes about in his letter, quarrels and fighting come from competing selfish desires.  People are prepared to do anything in order to get what they want (James 4:1).  When people do not get what they want they become angry and resort to verbal or physical violence.

An Elder must not be a bully.  He must not attempt to push people around.  He must not be in any way abusive toward others.  Rather he must be gentle in manner.  Even when he must correct and rebuke he must do it with gentleness.  Gentleness is proof of a heart motivated by love and not selfishness. 

Closely related to the negative trait of violence is that of being quarrelsome.

We discussed this when we looked at the requirement of being able to teach in our last session.  A quarrelsome person loves to argue and they love to win!  Their pride causes them to esteem their own opinions and dismiss the opinions of others.  A quarrelsome person is not a learner.  They have no interest in being taught, only in being right.

An Elder on the other hand faithfully teaches, corrects, rebukes and encourages without getting caught up in endless arguments that lead nowhere and produce no good fruit.  An Elder does not let his ego or his desires get in the way of sticking to the Bible and seeking God’s glory.

In the parallel passage in Titus 1 we read that Elders must not be overbearing or quick-tempered, again reinforcing the gentleness and patience required of an Elder.

9.      An Elder must not be a lover of money 

In Titus 1:7 this is described as “not pursuing dishonest gain”. 

It is very possible to be so desperate for money that you compromise your values in order to obtain it or keep it.  It is possible to be so desperate for money that you omit to report accurately on your tax return, or pay back what you owe, or cheat your customers, or steal from others.

Jesus said “You cannot serve both God and money” (Matt 6:24, Lk 16:13).

It is said that money is a great tool but a terrible master.  Jesus isn’t focussing on money itself here, but on everything that it can provide.  Money can buy friends.  It can buy power.  It can buy respect.  It can buy comforts and pleasures.  It can buy beauty.  It can buy sex.  It can provide security.  It can provide freedom.  It can boost our self-esteem.  It can buy most things that we selfishly desire.

A godly person is content with what they have and trusts God for what they need (eg. Heb 13:5).  An Elder must be an example of this.  If an Elder is desperate for what money can provide, there is a danger that he will use his position for financial gain (see 1 Peter 5:2) or else he will use his position to gain some of those things that he desires more than he desires to please God.

10.  He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him with proper respect 

Again, this qualification touches on gender roles.  We won’t go too deeply into that subject as it is a big one, but we believe that God has established husbands and fathers as leaders of their households.  The bible is not just reflecting what was going on at the time it was written, it is actually communicating to us God’s design for families.  It is tragic that this leadership role has been terribly abused by men in their sinfulness over the centuries.  It is also tragic when a wife and mother does not follow God’s design for her role as intimate companion and helpmate.

However in this passage we are only dealing with the qualifications necessary for men aspiring to the role of Elder.  Since an Elder is entrusted with being a leader in the church of God, he should be a man who has first demonstrated integrity and maturity in his leadership of his own household. 

Now the word translated as “family” here in the NIV is simply the word for “house” and is also used for those who dwell in it.  In some cases this might also include servants or even slaves in the case of wealthy converts to Christianity.  It is helpful to recognise this fact, as sometimes people have asked about how long a man is accountable for the behaviour of his children.  The simple answer is that as long as the children reside in his house, a father is responsible to ensure that his children obey him (and their mother) with proper respect.  That’s a big challenge!  Anyone who has been a parent knows that it is one thing to get obedience, but obedience with respect is another matter altogether!

It doesn’t come about by trying to force it onto a child.  It doesn’t happen under a rule of iron.  That only produces fear and resentment, even if they are savvy enough not to let it show.

It comes about when fathers nurture and care for their children as well as providing the necessary discipline.

An Elder should be a man who has the respect of his children.  He should be someone who has selflessly cared for them in the same way an Elder cares for the congregation.

This qualification is quite straightforward until we turn to our parallel passage in Titus!

In Titus 1:6 we read that an Elder must be “a man whose children believe and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient.”

The part about being wild and disobedient echoes what Paul instructed Timothy, but he appears to add an extra qualification to Titus that he did not mention to Timothy – that his children must believe.

I have seen many different interpretations of this verse, and many different ways of applying it to Elders, so over the last month I have done a lot of study on this one verse in the light of the rest of Scripture.

The issue stems from the Greek word used in Titus 1:6 – pistos.  It usually means someone who is faithful, who can be trusted.  It can also mean someone who has faith, someone who trusts.  The NIV and many other translations have opted for the latter meaning, however the KJV and NKJV translations among some others have opted for “faithful children” or similar wording.

Scholars who argue that Paul is saying that an Elder’s children must be believers tend to emphasise that if a man is to be entrusted with building the faith of a congregation he must have proven successful in nurturing and establishing faith in his children.  Many would say that this requirement ends with a child coming to an age of responsibility and/or leaving home.  At such a time they must make their own choice about whether to continue in their faith or not.

This raises some massive theological issues.  Of course an Elder should be a person who has nurtured faith in their children.  However the Bible teaches that none of us can produce faith in our children or in anyone else.  Personally, I find that a very disturbing truth!  I have often stood over the beds or cot that my children are sleeping in and realised just how powerless I am to determine their future, all I can do is entrust them to God and do my best to nurture them and be an example for them.  I can expect them to adhere to the standards of our home while they reside in it, but I cannot require them to share my faith, it just doesn’t work that way.

Another key issue is that it would be very strange for Paul to write something to Titus which is so different to what he wrote to Timothy.  If he is saying that children must be faithful, that fits very easily with what he commanded Timothy – a child who is faithful is obedient and respectful.  He or she can be counted on to do what the father has entrusted to him or her and to be the sort of person that he or she has been raised to be.  However to insist upon the child believing in Christ for salvation is to presume upon both the sovereignty of God and the free will of the child, to say that the child’s salvation can instead be determined by the father if that father is of sufficient maturity and character.  I don’t believe the Bible as a whole supports that view.

11.  An Elder must not be a recent convert

Remember an Elder is someone of spiritual maturity who can be an example and a help to others in following Jesus.  If we were to appoint recent converts to the position, it would create the false idea that some people are natural spiritual leaders!  That sentence doesn’t make sense and neither does the idea of appointing new believers to the role of Elder.  Yes, we can all learn from new believers.  Yes, we can all benefit from them and what God does through them.  But you do not become spiritually mature overnight!  It takes years of faithfully following God through all the experiences of life.  It takes years of studying the Bible to get a firm foundation in the truth.

Paul warns that there is a danger that a new believer appointed to the role of Elder “may become conceited and fall into the same judgement as the devil” (v6).  This is precisely because the church has esteemed them in their natural selves before they have had a chance to be transformed in character, motivation and behaviour by the consistent working of God’s Spirit, Word and People.  They may be successful in business, have a winning personality or natural leadership skill, but none of these things are qualifications for spiritual leadership.

The devil’s pride fuelled selfish ambition – he wanted to be exalted over God.  When we celebrate a person’s natural abilities and achievements instead of the affirming the spiritual transformation worked by God, we make it very difficult for them to not become proud.  They begin to believe that they know best.  They look down on others.  They rely on their own wisdom instead of seeking God’s.  The result is catastrophic for them and for the church.

We need to nurture and support new believers.  Not stifle them in order to keep the status quo, but neither rush them into positions they are not yet ready for.

12.  An Elder must also have a good reputation with outsiders

Verse 7 tells us that “He must also have a good reputation with outsiders, so that he will not fall into disgrace and into the devil’s trap.”

Now remember that the devil is proud.  He wants to be exalted over God, and so he does everything he can to darken people’s minds to the reality of the glory of God.  He does not want anyone to be saved and to worship God, rather he is glorified when people do the things that are contrary to God’s character.

When it comes to his agenda against the Church, Satan wants to bring God down in the minds of Christians so that they live for themselves instead of God, dishonouring God through their disobedience.

He also wants to make sure that this is witnessed by unbelievers, so that instead of seeing our good deeds and praising our Father who is in heaven (Matt 5:16, 1 Peter 2:12), they see things in our lives which cause them to dismiss our beliefs and our Saviour.

As leaders and public representatives of the church, Elders are very much in Satan’s sights.  He gets great value from leaders who fall into disgrace.  I remember being at school as a teenager and other kids would make comments about some of the scandals that were going on with famous T.V. preachers at that time.  I was so ashamed and frustrated by that – imagine how God must feel when his representatives are shoddy in how they represent him.  That goes for all of us, but especially our leaders.

As part of that I would remind you of the importance of praying for your leaders.  They need the grace of God to stand firm against temptation, because our enemy will do all he can to frustrate their work for God and ruin their reputation and that of the Church so that he might ruin the reputation of God in the minds of people.  As we’ve discussed earlier, this goes for his whole family as well.

Conclusion

REMEMBER: These are qualities for all of us to aspire to, but they are essential qualities for leaders to possess.

As you look at this list I trust that God will point out to you some things that He wants to address in your own journey of following Jesus.

As we look toward appointing Elders I trust that God will point out to you the people that are well advanced in their journey of following Jesus, whose lives are marked by these qualities and who will make faithful and effective leaders for our congregation.

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^[1]All Scriptures from The Holy Bible : New International Version. 1996, c1984. Grand Rapids: Zondervan.

[2] Source: http://www.abc.net.au/news/stories/2009/11/19/2747303.htm

[3] “The avoidable costs of alcohol abuse in Australia and the potential benefits of effective policies to reduce the social costs of alcohol” Publications Number: P3-4246 © Commonwealth of Australia 2008

Sermon - The Grace of God in Worship

The Grace of God in Worship
15/11/2009

Introduction – “Give careful thought to your ways”

It’s very easy to come together week by week and do what we do out of habit, without giving real thought to the significance of what we are doing.

In the book of Haggai we read a strong message that the prophet Haggai delivers to the Jewish people who had returned from exile in Babylon and had resettled the promised land. They are being rebuked because they are looking after their own needs but neglecting to restore the Temple of the Lord. As God through Haggai calls the people back to proper worship of Him, there is a key phrase that is repeated five times in the two chapters that make up this short book: “Give careful thought to your ways”.

What we do each week when we come together should be a powerful experience and expression of the grace of God at work in and through our lives. We’ve explored already the grace of God in speaking to us and shaping our lives through the preaching of His Word. We’ve explored the grace of God in keeping us in right relationship with Him and with each other through our celebration of communion. The grace that is at work in these two things are powerful but we can easily miss it if we don’t give careful thought to our ways.

Today we are looking at the grace of God in worship. Worship is a huge topic to address. In fact, one of the biggest problems Christians have is a small understanding of worship, as if worship is just something that happens for part of a church service. My prayer is that as we grapple with the Bible’s picture of worship today, that we will experience the grace of God in worship in every part of our lives, and that grace will infuse our time of shared worship with a new and fresh vitality.

As we look at the big picture of worship this morning I want you to imagine worship as being kind of like a beam of white light. When we apply a prism to that light we discover that it is actually composed of a range of different colours which combine together to create what we see as white light. In a similar way, biblical worship is composed of a whole range of attitudes and actions which combine together to be the worship that God desires from us.

Let me give you a very quick example of what I mean by that…

Amos 5:21-24
21 “I hate, I despise your religious feasts; I cannot stand your assemblies.
22 Even though you bring me burnt offerings and grain offerings, I will not accept them.
Though you bring choice fellowship offerings,I will have no regard for them.
23 Away with the noise of your songs! I will not listen to the music of your harps.
24 But let justice roll on like a river, righteousness like a never-failing stream!


This passage echoes a theme that runs throughout the Bible – you cannot claim to be worshipping God just by observing the proper ceremonies and presenting “proper” gifts. It is important to do that and we read occasions where people were being rebuked for not doing that either – but just doing these things is not enough. God isn’t interested in being sung to and praised by a bunch of people who do not obey Him and share His heart for others. Treating others with justice and mercy and love is an essential part of our worship to God!

Now we cannot address the whole spectrum of biblical worship today. In fact I have observed that learning to worship God is a lifelong journey! There are seasons where God grows you in the depth of sincerity and significance in how you worship God musically. There are seasons where you grow in how you worship God prayerfully. There are seasons where you grow in how you worship God in how you relate to people. There are seasons where you grow in how you worship God in the choices you make about what you watch, what you listen to, what you buy and so on. We should all be on a journey of becoming better worshippers.

Even though we can’t cover all of that today what I want to do is introduce you to a very important Hebrew word that is translated as “worship” in the Old Testament. Of all the different attitudes and actions that make up worship, this is the foundational one. This is the one you need to get right or none of the others will be right.

The word is shachah (shaw·khaw). Basically, it describes the action of bowing down, of prostrating yourself. I’m going to take you on a bit of a journey today that will help you understand the importance of this idea, and when you put it into practice you will discover the grace of God in worship.

To worship God begins with acknowledging the reality of the awesomeness of God.

Psalm 8 gives us this perspective:
1 O Lord, our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth!
You have set your glory above the heavens.
2 From the lips of children and infants you have ordained praise because of your enemies,
to silence the foe and the avenger.
3 When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers,
the moon and the stars, which you have set in place,
4 what is man that you are mindful of him, the son of man that you care for him?

5 You made him a little lower than the heavenly beings and crowned him with glory and honor.
6 You made him ruler over the works of your hands; you put everything under his feet:
7 all flocks and herds, and the beasts of the field,
8 the birds of the air, and the fish of the sea,
all that swim the paths of the seas.
9 O Lord, our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth!

Notice here that David acknowledges the dignity and glory of humanity – crowned with glory and honour, ruler over all the world that God has created. Yet when confronted with the splendour and greatness of God himself, who are we that God would think of us and care for us? This is the attitude of shachah! “God, You are awesome, and I bow down to you”.

This attitude is reflected in heavenly worship. Turn with me to…

Revelation 4:1-11
After this I looked, and there before me was a door standing open in heaven. And the voice I had first heard speaking to me like a trumpet said, “Come up here, and I will show you what must take place after this.” 2 At once I was in the Spirit, and there before me was a throne in heaven with someone sitting on it. 3 And the one who sat there had the appearance of jasper and carnelian. A rainbow, resembling an emerald, encircled the throne. 4 Surrounding the throne were twenty-four other thrones, and seated on them were twenty-four elders. They were dressed in white and had crowns of gold on their heads. 5 From the throne came flashes of lightning, rumblings and peals of thunder. Before the throne, seven lamps were blazing. These are the seven spirits of God. 6 Also before the throne there was what looked like a sea of glass, clear as crystal.
In the center, around the throne, were four living creatures, and they were covered with eyes, in front and in back. 7 The first living creature was like a lion, the second was like an ox, the third had a face like a man, the fourth was like a flying eagle. 8 Each of the four living creatures had six wings and was covered with eyes all around, even under his wings. Day and night they never stop saying:
“Holy, holy, holy
is the Lord God Almighty,
who was, and is, and is to come.”
9 Whenever the living creatures give glory, honor and thanks to him who sits on the throne and who lives for ever and ever, 10 the twenty-four elders fall down before him who sits on the throne, and worship him who lives for ever and ever. They lay their crowns before the throne and say:
11 “You are worthy, our Lord and God,
to receive glory and honor and power,
for you created all things,
and by your will they were created
and have their being.”

Notice in this scene you have humanity and angels represented by the twenty-four elders and the four living creatures. These angelic creatures themselves are portrayed in such a way as to represent all living creatures. And they all worship God! The elders even lay down their crowns and prostrate themselves before Him – the attitude of shachah!

This attitude of bowing down before God is to acknowledge the reality of who we are and who God is. It is to choose to take joy in being an object of God’s love and attention, and in doing so we receive His limitless grace.

However one of the angels was not content with this. There was one angel who decided to try and change reality after his own desires. Instead of worshipping God he desired to place himself above God and become an object of worship himself.

That angel’s name was Lucifer, but he is now known as Satan among other names.

His attempt to usurp God’s place is recounted in the 3rd chapter of Genesis. God has created humanity to live in right relationship with Himself. He is God and they knew Him as God.

Satan did not want to see humanity worship God, he craved that worship for himself. He wanted people to join in his rebellion against the created order. “God is not really that great, we are great!” he would whisper to them.
I won’t retell the whole story – if you don’t know it you can read it yourself later. Let’s just zoom in on Genesis 3:1-4
Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?”
2 The woman said to the serpent, “We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, 3 but God did say, ‘You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden, and you must not touch it, or you will die.’”
4 “You will not surely die,” the serpent said to the woman. 5 “For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”

What is Satan doing here? He’s undermining the attitude of shachah toward God.

Adam and Eve knew God as their Creator and the Creator of the whole world – the whole universe in fact! In their contact with God they would have discovered his goodness and love – they would have personally experienced His perfect nature.

They knew that God is far above us.

So Satan proceeds to try bring God down in their minds. Speaking to Eve, he accuses God of lying. That’s not so great! He insinuates that God’s purpose for lying was to keep them as subservient to Himself. To keep them under His thumb. To maintain the status quo of God on top and them down below.

It doesn’t have to be that way, Satan tells them. You can be like God. You can go from worshipper to worshipped. You can be free to choose whatever you want. You can be your own bosses.

And so Satan tricks them into swapping the truth for a lie, and he has continued to do that ever since. He has been darkening the minds of people to try and hide the reality of the glory and goodness of God. He hates that reality. He rebels against that reality and he has conscripted certain other angels and humanity in general into his rebellion.

It is not an honest rebellion. He promised Adam and Eve that they would be like God – in charge of their own fate and able to choose between good and evil. Most people in our society think that is exactly what is going on - there is no God except ourselves!

In actual fact, it is a deception. By following our own sinful desires we actually honour the one who has incited us to rebel and we dishonour the One who made us.

The Apostle Paul gives his young friend Timothy this advice about how to treat others…

2 Timothy 2:25-26
Those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, 26 and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will.

The truth is that God is great and that we should order our whole lives around His reality and His revelation to us. The trap of the devil is to make God either non-existent or smaller in our minds so that we do not live for Him but for ourselves, inadvertently serving Satan instead.

The sins that we have all committed keep us from God. We cannot draw close to Him even to worship Him, because He is so great! He is morally perfect. He is completely pure. Anything evil cannot co-exist with Him. The Bible says that God is tolerating the existence of rebellious humanity and the masters we have chosen only for the sake of allowing time for some to choose to be reconciled to Him. Until the time comes to finally judge this world He is holding Himself back from fully engaging with us, because it would destroy us if He were to do so. Satan’s rebellion will be destroyed – it never had any hope of success! God is God and Satan is not and we are not – that is just reality! It’s a good reality for all who will accept it! God wants to rescue us from our rebellion and bring us back to reality, and He did that in His Son, Jesus Christ.

The good news is that Jesus has come into our world to restore us to a position of right relationship to God. He has come to make us God’s children instead of would-be usurpers of His creation. He’s come to crush the leader of the rebellion and take away his power over us.

Satan attempted to prevent this from happening, using the same tactics that worked so well with Adam and Eve.

In Matthew 4:1-11 we read of how Satan attempted to sabotage Jesus’ mission just as it was getting started. In the final part of their confrontation we read…

8 Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor. 9 “All this I will give you,” he said, “if you will bow down and worship me.”
10 Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.’

Jesus is going to restore humanity to right relationship with God, and not all of us would accept it. Satan says “I’ll give you all of them – it’s all yours! You will be on top again. You will be over humanity once more – just come down from your lofty position and bow down to me!” (the words “bow down” in the NIV are better translated as “fall down” or “descend”, and “worship” as “pay homage” or “prostrate yourself before” – the Greek equivalent to the Hebrew “shachah”.)

Satan is still chasing the same thing – he wants to be exalted above God Himself. And now God the Son appears in human flesh and Satan sees a chance to get what he wants. So Jesus wants to redeem mankind? He can have us – just bow down! It’s so much easier than going to the cross!

This illustrates one of the key differences between Satan and God. One of the things that makes God, God and Satan so much less.

For Satan it is all about him – he wants to be number one and he has tried everything to get there. Humans are just pawns in his game. He does not love us, he just wants to be over us. He wants to use us in his war against God. He would trade us all just to get God to bow down to him.

God however is the complete opposite. He is under no threat from Satan. Reality is not going to change. He will judge Satan when the time is right. However God loved us even knowing we would rebel against Him. God had decided that He would give Himself for us even before the first people walked the Earth. He chose to forgive us for the horrible things we have thought, said and done in the past and in the future. He chose to bring us into His family even knowing the many times that we would go back to living selfishly, doing the things that have caused Him so much pain. He is preparing an eternal home for us even while we get preoccupied with our temporary one. He truly is good. He truly is worthy of our worship!

The grace of God in worship begins with an attitude of shachah – of humbly acknowledging the reality of who God is and who we are, and ordering our whole lives accordingly.

It is why in our times of worship together we like to sing songs and read Scriptures and share stories that remind us of the character and majesty of God, His grace toward us and His promises to us. It restores our sense of wonder and humility. It prevents our worship from becoming selfish.

Selfishness is a major problem in holding churches back from true worship. How many times have you seen fights break out in churches about the way they worship together? How often have you heard people and churches criticised for the way they worship?

Whenever that happens you have a problem. Worship has left the building and been replaced by selfishness and pride. Worship has fallen off a cliff! An attitude of shachah does not produce quarrels about trivial things like structure and style – only selfishness does that. An attitude of shachah does not judge others’ worship based on those trivial things, because that is something for God alone – only pride and ignorance provoke a person to think they can step into God’s place. That’s the error of Satan, not the behaviour of the Christian.

So often I’ve heard people say things like: “they’re just being entertained”, or “they’re spiritually dead”, or “they have no reverence for God”, or “they have no passion”, or “they’re stuck in their traditions”, or even “they don’t know how to worship”. I’ve seen people from different worship traditions criticise each other when they should be learning from each other and blessing each other. An attitude of shachah says (among other things) “I would love to learn from others so that I may more fully worship God.”

Now we all know that it is important to apply biblical truth to God’s church, and if there are errors in teaching and practice to be able to point them out. But if we’re honest, the vast majority of disputes and criticisms arise from personal preferences, traditions and ways of looking at things.

Doing anything thoughtlessly can be dangerous – even thoughtless “worship” is dangerous. It is very easy for “worship” to be about music I like, styles of preaching I like, types of experiences I like and what I get out of it when I turn up to it.

If worship becomes about us, we will have fallen for Satan’s rebellious deception to make God less and ourselves greater in our own minds. It won’t be that obvious. We will seem perhaps very pious, or very sensible, or very excited, or very relevant, or very sophisticated or whatever, but if we lose that sense of wonder at the greatness of God and the smallness of ourselves we will have lost God and lost touch with who we really are. We will not be able to worship, and we will miss the grace of God that comes with true worship.

I want to close by telling you the story of the very first mention of the word “shachah” in the Bible. The story is found in Genesis 22 and it tells of Abraham who is going to sacrifice his son Isaac to God in obedience to what God has told him to do. He tells a servant that he and Isaac are going off to worship. He is giving up his beloved son and all his hopes for the future because God has told him to. As it turns out God has provided another sacrifice, and Abraham instead of giving up a son is going to receive an incredible blessing and promise, as is Isaac. And they are going to experience God in a new way which moves them to love and revere Him even more than they did before.

We are always blessed when we worship God. Yet our sinful nature is so deceptive that if we focus on that blessing too much we will find ourselves chasing the blessings from God instead of worshipping God. We try to get from God what we want from Him instead of receiving from Him what He wants to give us. It’s like churches that market themselves according to how good they are going to make people feel and how much better your life will be with God in it. That’s not worship, that’s turning God into a service provider! That brings Him down and puffs us up!

Our job is to focus on giving Him everything, of laying down our lives before Him, completely prostrated – nothing held back. The grace of God in worship is that God by His very nature always blesses those who worship Him. Abraham became a great nation, and thousands of years later on that same mountain (according to tradition), God provided through that nation the ultimate sacrifice – Jesus Christ, Saviour of the World and King of Kings.

So when you come together with other Christians to worship God, don’t come to get but to give. Don’t evaluate worship by how it made you feel or whether you approved of it or whatever else, rather evaluate your own worship according to what you gave and the attitude in which you gave it.

As you grow as a worshipper of God, you will have a greater awareness, appreciation and experience of the grace of God at work in your life. You will live in the blessed abundance of a child of God, instead of following Satan’s example in trying to live as though you are God.

Leadership in the Church pt 4

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We continue to look at the biblical qualifications for Elders from 1 Timothy chapter 3 and Titus chapter 1, to discover what it means for Elders to be "temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach".

Leadership in the Church pt 4

The Qualifications of Elders 2

25/10/09

Recap

We got started in looking at the qualifications of Elders last week using 1 Timothy 3:1-7 as our text, and referring to a parallel passage in Titus 1:5-11.

We covered the passage up to the middle of verse 2 last week…

Here is a trustworthy saying: If anyone sets his heart on being an overseer,^ he desires a noble task. ^2 Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife ^[1]

Within these verses we covered three key qualifications of an Elder.

· First we noted that an Elder in the church must be a man. We recognized that there are differences of opinion among Christians on this, but we believe the Bible sets out a pattern that was meant to be followed not just in the cultures of biblical times but in our culture also.

· Secondly we noted that an Elder is a man who is above reproach, not meaning without fault, but meaning a man who is above accusation. When he sins he confesses that sin – publicly where necessary – and is restored by God. An Elder cannot be a person who harbours sin in his life or denies sins when they occur. These two qualifications are the overarching ones, the things that follow in the list simply add more specific detail to these general qualifications.

· Thirdly we noted that an Elder is a man who is faithful to his wife if he is married. He is a model to other men in how to treat their wives. He is not flirtatious. He does not entertain lustful fantasies. He is not adulterous. If he is single, he should likewise be a model of how to treat women as sisters with absolute purity (1 Tim 5:2), in the same manner that married men do with all but their wives.

As we begin our study today I want to remind you that as we consider these qualifications they are meant to not only guide us in our selection of Elders, but also to show us what sort of people we are to be. May God speak to us about our own lives as we look at the sort of qualities He desires in His people – the sort of qualities that will glorify God, build up His people and cause us to be faithful witnesses of Christ Jesus.

We are going to deal with the next three qualifications together, as they are very closely linked…

An Elder must be temperate, self-controlled, respectable

The first two terms are very closely related. The first one, “temperate” refers to being clear minded. It means to be alert and to not have your thinking impeded by anything – uncontrolled emotions, sinful desires, intoxicating substances or whatever. An elder must be able to think clearly in all situations. Remember they are charged with keeping a careful watch over themselves and the flock.

The second term “self-controlled” refers to not just their ability to be clear minded but also well behaved. They put into practice the principle of Romans 12:2 – they are not conforming to the pattern of this world, but are being transformed by the renewing of their minds.

We all know what it’s like to be so caught up in something so powerfully that we don’t think clearly and therefore don’t do what is right and good.

I don’t have any experience being caught up in drunkenness or other substance us that has taken over my ability to think, so I can’t identify with that one, but I do know what it’s like to be caught up in anger and caught up in pleasure. I have told you many stories in the past of the unwise things that I have done in those situations.

1 Peter 4:5 says

The end of all things is near. Therefore be clear minded and self-controlled so that you can pray.

Don’t get caught up in the things of this world that threaten to control you whatever they may be. Recognise that our time here is short and we must use it for the glory of God and His eternal kingdom. Be clear minded and self controlled in order that we can pray – so that we can live in right relationship with God through His Spirit.

1 Thessalonians 5:1-6 puts it like this:

Now, brothers, about times and dates we do not need to write to you, ^2 for you know very well that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night. ^3 While people are saying, “Peace and safety,” destruction will come on them suddenly, as labor pains on a pregnant woman, and they will not escape.

^4 But you, brothers, are not in darkness so that this day should surprise you like a thief. ^5 You are all sons of the light and sons of the day. We do not belong to the night or to the darkness. ^6 So then, let us not be like others, who are asleep, but let us be alert and self-controlled.

As we get closer to the return of Christ there are going to be more and more things trying to pull us away from following Him. The Church will be infiltrated by people who seek to tell people what they want to hear – teaching people to follow their own desires as if that’s what God really wants for them. There will be great temptation for leaders also to pursue popularity and in the process sacrifice faithfulness to God. Listen to the advice Paul gives to Timothy about this in

2 Timothy 4:1-5…

In the presence of God and of Christ Jesus, who will judge the living and the dead, and in view of his appearing and his kingdom, I give you this charge: ^2 Preach the Word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction. ^3 For the time will come when men will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. ^4 They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths. ^5 But you, keep your head in all situations, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist, discharge all the duties of your ministry.

Do you see those two essential qualities of a leader coming through again? “Keep your head” – be clear minded and alert! Enduring hardship, doing the work of an evangelist and discharging all the duties of ministry – that’s talking about self discipline. Even when it gets hard and the pressure is on, keep doing what you know is right. Preach the Word! Correct, rebuke and encourage!

Elders must be men who follow this sort of example. They don’t get caught up in other things, they are clear minded and self controlled, and that is what produces the third qualification in this group: being respectable.

When a person gives careful thought to their life and teaching and when they exercise self discipline in carrying out what the Holy Spirit is prompting them to do it produces a life that wins the respect of others.

The classic text on this is Matthew 5:13-16, where Jesus says:

^13 “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled by men.

^14 “You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. ^15 Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. ^16 In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.

I want to illustrate this by taking you back in the book of 1 Timothy just a little way to where Paul is addressing Christian women, in…

1 Timothy 2:9&10

^9 I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, ^10 but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.

The word “modestly” is the same word as “respectable” in chapter 3 verse 2. Also, the word “propriety” comes from the same root word as “self-controlled” in the later passage. So basically we see Paul applying the same standards to Elders as he has just applied to all Christian women in regard to how they present themselves!

Both words basically refer to being properly ordered. When our lives are properly ordered others will see it and respect us for it.

As he addresses the women Paul points out that in their culture the way a woman presented herself was a big deal – that’s true today as well! Basically women felt under pressure to appear attractive as well as to communicate their status in society by their adornment. What they did with fancy hairstyles, expensive clothes and jewellery is still done today, but it just looks a little different!

Paul says to them “Hey, don’t be caught up in your own attractiveness or your own status. Don’t be controlled by the things that control so many other women. Instead, a Christian woman’s is to order her life around doing what is good, to the glory of God.”

That is also what Elders are to be like. They are to be people who are observed by others to have ordered their lives around doing what is good to the glory of their Father in Heaven.

Let’s move on to our next qualification:

An Elder must be hospitable

Hospitality is an incredibly important part of the Christian life. It is what builds a group of strangers into a family.

You might remember quite a few years ago now a particularly smug reporter asked a certain politician if she was xenophobic. She replied “Please explain” and has been ridiculed for it ever since. I suspect most people who watched it on T.V. didn’t know what xenophobic meant either – it means to be afraid of strangers. The Greek word for hospitality is “Philoxenia”, which means to love strangers.

If we’re honest, most of us tend to be closer to xenophobia than we are to philoxenia!

Most of us tend to be a little shy or wary, a bit stand-offish when it comes to making people feel welcome and accepted. All Christians are commanded to show hospitality with cheerfulness (1 Pet. 4:9) and particularly to share with those who are in need (Rom. 12:13), and to those who are doing the Lord’s work (3 John 8). Hebrews 13:2 tells us that in doing so some people have even entertained angels without knowing it!

Hospitality is a test of Christian love. It’s easy to say we love others, but often we have these mutual benefit societies where we just hang out with people we enjoy. We have people over for a meal knowing that they’ll have us over for a meal. We lend someone something knowing they’ll do the same for us. We help someone knowing they’ll help us.

It doesn’t take a lot of love to live like that. What you sometimes see is that when someone in a group like this starts getting a bit harder to love because they don’t have as much as the others or don’t always agree with the others, they start getting left out of the loop! That exposes the real selfishness that is being indulged.

If you only hang out with people and look out for people who you already have a loyalty to and friendship with, you are not being hospitable. You’re just doing what any other person does. It’s tribalism – you have your group and you look out for your group, and anyone else can go jump… unless they are going to join your group and fit in with your group and add something to your group. In that case they are most welcome!

Over the years I’ve seen so many different ways that people only give to relationships that they expect to get something from. That’s not the Christian way. Love is not selfish. True hospitality is a great litmus test to see if we are truly loving or whether we are self serving. It’s the standard expected of Elders.

So if hospitality is a demonstration of whether a person has matured in love, the next qualification is a test of their maturity in the truth.

An Elder must be able to teach

Remember that the “ministry of the Word” was one of the two primary tasks of the Apostles, and has been passed on to their successors who fill the role of Elder. The ministry of the Word refers to faithfulness in teaching the Word and applying the Word in the life of the church. The ability to teach the Word is an important part of caring for the needs of the flock. A sound knowledge of the Word is essential in order to be able to protect the flock and to rightly govern the flock.

The phrase “able to teach” comes from the Greek word “didaktikos”, which only occurs in one other place in the New Testament.

It’s found in 2 Timothy 2:22-26, where Paul is writing to Timothy to encourage him to be faithful in every aspect of his ministry. He says…

^22 Flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. ^23 Don’t have anything to do with foolish and stupid arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. ^24 And the Lord’s servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. ^25 Those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, ^26 and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will.

This is the type of teaching that Elders are to engage in. Not getting caught up in arguments. Not being resentful about those who don’t listen or won’t agree or don’t seem to put into practice the things that are taught. An Elder faithfully teaches the written Word which is centred on the Living Word – Jesus Christ. He seeks to help people to find truth in Jesus, to find freedom, forgiveness, fulfilment, a future – all in Jesus. An Elder is gentle in his instruction, because he knows that truth and love always go hand in hand in the kingdom of God.

This is what James writes on this subject in James 3:13-17:

^13 Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show it by his good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. ^14 But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. ^15 Such “wisdom” does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, of the devil. ^16 For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.

^17 But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere.

Lots of people are wise in their own eyes! Lots of people think that they know what other people need to hear.

Here’s the test to apply to yourself – what sort of fruit is your wisdom producing in your life and the lives of others?

When we think of men who are able to teach we are looking for men who will be able to pass on wisdom from above. A simple knowledge of the Bible isn’t enough, it must be accompanied by spiritual maturity such as James describes in this passage.

By the way, being able to teach doesn’t mean they must regularly preach! They should be able to do so, but teaching happens in many different ways. Elders should be active in small groups where the Bible is studied. Their conversations with others should impart wisdom. The example of their lives should demonstrate wisdom. They should be men that others can turn to when they want to know what the Bible teaches. They should be men that others can turn to when they need advice on how to live for Jesus.

So we’ve done 6 so far, only 8 more to go!! So far we’ve determined that…

1. An Elder must be a man

2. An Elder must be above reproach

3. An Elder must be faithful to his wife if he is married

4. An Elder must be temperate, self-controlled, respectable

5. An Elder must be hospitable

6. An Elder must be able to teach

I hope that as your understanding of these qualifications grows or is refreshed that God will continue to guide us in our selection of leaders and will show us what we should each be aspiring to as followers of Jesus.

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^[1]All Scriptures from The Holy Bible : New International Version. 1996, c1984. Grand Rapids: Zondervan.